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The Payoffs of Wisdom and Patience

By Dave Ramsey
Author, The Total Money Makeover

CBN.comStaying debt-free and making wise financial choices is what sets the truly intelligent money manager apart from the spendthrift fool. Here is what Dave Ramsey has to say about two real-life financial situations.

Grandma Cosigns Loan

Dear Dave,

I just found out that my mom co-signed my son’s new car loan. He defaulted, and now she’s making the payments. Does this mean she owns the car that was financed with the loan? If not, how do I go about taking over the car? I want to sell it.

– Patty

Dear Patty,

No, this doesn’t make your mom the owner of the car, unless she signed as an owner. But the first thing you do is call this kid up and tell him to bring you the car. Just make sure he hands it over voluntarily. Otherwise you’re looking at another problem called grand theft auto!

When you co-sign a loan for a friend or even a family member, it’s like playing Russian roulette. Chances are the gun’s going to go off, and you’ll end up blowing your financial brains out.

Debt is the most aggressively marketed product in our culture today. And if some banker wants a co-signer on a loan, it means he doesn’t think the person asking for the loan will pay it back!

Before all this started, I’m pretty sure grandma didn’t have a space on her to-do list marked “go thousands of dollars into debt.”

Co-signing is a BAD idea. If you insist on doing it, you better make sure you have the ability to write a check and hand them the money. Because chances are – one way or another – that’s exactly what you’re going to end up doing.


How Do I Live?

Dear Dave,

We’ve managed to become debt-free thanks, in part, to the fact that the little house we’ve been renting is just $500 a month. We’ve also been able to save up a few thousand dollars to buy a new home. We’d like to move into a better place of our own soon – especially since a skunk just moved in under the floor. But that will mean doubling what we now pay for a better way of life in a nicer neighborhood. What do you think?


Dear Rachel,

Congratulations on becoming debt-free! Feels great, doesn’t it?

Renting should be a time of wisely having patience until you reach the point where you can buy properly. It shouldn’t be a way of life, but it’s kind of like paying patience tax until you can save up for a big down payment.

I imagine it’s pretty hard to have tons of patience when a skunk moves in with you, so maybe the big question right now is this: How much longer are you willing to hold your nose while you save up money for a nice home?

I can see three options here. Number one, get the animal control people to trap that critter and continue to live in Skunk Manor a year or two longer while you save some more. Two, you could go ahead and make the move to a nicer place of your own that costs twice as much before you’re truly ready. Not what I’d recommend, by the way.
Or, option three could be taking a couple of months to look around for another bargain rental deal – something that’s in-between where you are now and the really nice neighborhood you’ve got your hearts set on AND would allow you to save up a fat 20 percent down payment on the place you really want.

God bless and good luck, Rachel!


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Dave Ramsey is a nationally-syndicated radio talk show host and author of the New York Times bestselling books, Financial Peace Revisited and The Total Money Makeover. His life-changing advice in the area of personal finance helps people get out of debt, stay out of debt and build wealth that will last a lifetime and beyond.

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