| FAITH'Mistaken Identity' Reveals God's GraceBy Belinda ElliottCBN.com Daily Life Producer
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              It was a story that made national headlines because it was  so hard to believe. In the aftermath of a devastating wreck that killed five  people, a case of mistaken identity added to the trauma that two families were  already experiencing.  The accident occurred as a van full of students and employees  from Taylor University  in Upland, Indiana, were returning to campus after  serving at a banquet on April 26, 2006. The driver of a semi-tractor trailer  collided with them after he fell asleep behind the wheel. Five people were  killed instantly, and one young woman found to be barely breathing, was rushed  to the hospital. The woman was identified as Laura Van Ryn, a 22-year-old  college student from Caledonia,   Michigan. She was badly bruised  and suffering from a serious brain injury. For five weeks Laura’s mother,  father, and sister helped care for the young woman as she slowly emerged from a  coma and began physical therapy. The Van Ryns were told by doctors that Laura may be confused  and seem different than how they knew her. As a result, the family never gave  it a second thought when Laura mistakenly called them by the wrong names, or  when they noticed things about her that looked slightly different than before,  such as her teeth.  Then one day in a therapy session Laura was asked to write  her name. In response, she wrote W-H-I-T-N-E-Y. Though it seemed really strange  to her father, Don Van Ryn, the medical staff attributed it to her brain injury  and suggested that perhaps she had been seated next to someone named Whitney in  the van. When Laura’s sister, Lisa Van Ryn, heard about the therapy  session from her dad, she began to feel unsettled. The small things that her  family had noticed during their five weeks at the hospital started to make her  question the young woman’s identity. She remembered someone named Whitney as  being one of the five people killed in the accident. She had a DVD that  had been shown at a memorial service for the crash victims. On it was a picture  of Whitney Cerak, a Taylor  student that had been killed in the wreck. One look at the photo confirmed her  fear. She no longer believed it was her sister Laura that her family had been  caring for; it was Whitney. Immediately, Lisa asked her father how the bodies at the  accident scene had been identified. Could there have been a mistake? When he  checked into it he was told that there was some possible room for doubt about  his daughter’s identity. Soon dental records confirmed that the young woman in  the hospital was Whitney, not his daughter Laura.  Though the news was devastating to the Van Ryns, their main  concern quickly became reuniting Whitney with her real parents, Newell and  Colleen Cerak of Gaylord, Michigan. Just five weeks before, on the day  after their daughter’s 19th birthday, the Ceraks had buried Laura’s  body thinking it was Whitney. Now they were about to learn that their daughter  was actually alive. Sharing Their StoryThose events took place in the summer of 2006. Now, after  two years of trying to put their lives back together, the Van Ryn and Cerak  families are sharing their story with the world. Their recently released book, Mistaken Identity, tells how the two  families’ Christian faith strengthened them through the ordeal. Though people will want to read about the unique  circumstances surrounding the accident and the identity mix-up, the families  believe that the true message of their story is God’s love.  “This book is really about how God has sustained two families  through His grace,” the authors write. “We hope after all that is said on these  pages, you see it is really all about Him.” The families were hesitant at first to write the book  because they were not the only ones affected by the accident. Many other families  lost loved ones as well. They eventually decided to share their story because  they felt like it was something God wanted them to do. The book immediately shot to the top of the New York Times Bestsellers List as soon  as it was released. And they have heard from countless readers telling them how  the story has touched them. Lisa Van Ryn said the family has received cards  from people telling them that the story changed their perspective on life,  changed their thoughts about God, and offered them hope. “It’s encouraging to hear that people are being challenged,”  Lisa said. “Laura would be honored to know that she’s been a part of this story  in a way that has brought that many people closer to the Lord. That’s awesome.” The families place no blame on anyone for the identity mix  up, and they harbor no resentment toward the trucker involved in the accident. It  is another aspect of their Christian faith that shines through in their story. “The whole idea of not placing blame is really counter  cultural to what we see all over the place today,” Lisa said. “I guess that’s  maybe something that God wanted to have so prevalent in our story so that  people could see that there’s a different way to view things. You don’t have to  point blame in every situation. This seems like a situation where you would  absolutely want to do that because of how things turned out. But maybe God  planned it extra-ordinarily so He could make that point.” Hope in the Midst of  TragedyThe two families write in the book about God’s grace and  love that brought them through the tragedy. They want readers to know that this  same grace is available to everyone. “It is a horrible thing to lose a child,” the authors write.  “Yet even in the midst of the worst of tragedies, God reveals Himself. These  are not just words we use to keep our spirits up during difficult days. We have  experienced this revelation for ourselves. Above all things, this is the  message we hope to convey. This is a story about God’s grace and His love for  us that transcends the worst this world can dish out.” “And our faith is not something so great,” Lisa said. “It’s  really God that has given us the strength to continue to walk with Him.” Her sister’s life reflected that same passion and love for  God, and Lisa hopes that Laura’s death will lead others to want to experience  that as well. “It’s just awesome to know that she had a faith in the Lord  and that she’s with Him now. I don’t know what she would think of all this, but  we are all going to die someday.  If you’re going to  die in an accident like this, how amazing it is that your death would leave a  legacy of faith and hope. That encourages me.” After working closely with Whitney in her therapy, Lisa has  gone back to school with plans to work in the physical therapy field.  “I’m excited to work with people in that way and hopefully  bring some compassion from my experience to those that I’ll be caring for and  their families,” Lisa said. “I’m really excited about that.” Her parents are planning to move to work full time at the  camp where Laura and her family have been involved for years.  Whitney’s Point of  ViewWhitney’s life has also been changed as a result of the  accident. She has made a full recovery and returned to school at Taylor University.  However, she writes in the book that she found it difficult to get back to  “normal” when she returned to school. She struggled with the guilt of wondering why she survived  when other students did not. The idea that God had spared her life “for a reason”  left her feeling like people had huge expectations that she needed to live up  to. Then a friend reminded her of the Bible story where God speaks through a  whisper rather than an earthquake. “I realized that instead of thinking that my life has to be  some big windstorm or earthquake for God, perhaps I only have to let Him  whisper gently through my life,” Whitney writes in the book. “That story made  me realize I don’t have to accomplish some giant thing for God. If I’m just a  camp counselor who makes the difference in the life of one person, or if I’m  just a mom who loves her children and tells them about Jesus, that’s enough. It  took a little while, but I finally figured out that God’s purpose is for me to  let Him do whatever He wants in my life, big or small. Being a part of writing  this book may be the last “big” thing I ever do, and I’m fine with that.” The accident also changed her relationship with God. Though  she had grown up in a Christian home, she said she never felt extremely close to God. As  she entered college she was praying that God would give her more of a passion  for Him, which is something that the accident led to.  “He answered my prayers and gave me a desire for Him that I  never had before,” she writes. She said the ordeal has shown her that God works in  mysterious ways, and that He can work through both the good and the bad. “At the one-year memorial, Don Van Ryn said that any one of  the people in that van would have gladly given his or her life for Christ. And  I believe that is really what they did. Since the accident, and since the  mix-up with Laura and me, so many people have heard and seen God’s love that  wouldn’t have heard it any other way," Whitney writes. "Don said that’s what all the people in  the van would have wanted, no matter what the cost.”   Purchase your copy of  Mistaken Identity. Support the Upper Peninsula Bible Camp where Laura volunteered. More  interviews and book reviews  
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